let's talk aboutwhat men don't say

the emotions we learn to hide — and the behaviours we repeat without noticing.
people following closely on instagram and tiktok
comments — real conversations under the videos
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the emotions we learn to hide — and the behaviours we repeat without noticing.

emotional dependency, communication and the patterns we repeat in love.

presence, affection and example — what being a father really asks of you, from a father of three.

jealousy, rejection, loneliness, fear of abandonment — universal pains, no diagnosis attached.

racism, misogyny, injustice and dignity — conviction, not a shop window.

travel, routine, self-care and a life between brazil and europe — the person behind the content.

films, series and public cases, read through the lens of human behaviour.
as equals, without judgement — about loving, relating and understanding yourself, in a way you can actually hear.
get to knowi put into words what you feel and can't explain.
start with the topic that speaks to your moment — no rush, with care.
startyour content is phenomenal — even when it comes from hard topics, it makes you think and reflect. i just found you and i'm already following. you are necessary.
it sounds silly, but this video hit home. i really needed to hear a message like this.
i had to forward this message to a few special people. a beautiful reflection.
nobody sent me this video, but somehow it found me. and i loved it.
more men with beautiful souls, who love, listen to and respect women.
a black man, a father, from salvador — i lived more than 15 years outside brazil, in london, england, and left a career as a software engineer to work as a communicator and speaker. i use my voice to name what we feel and can't always explain — as an equal, with women, LGBT+ people and other men.
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every video becomes a longer text — written in portuguese, for the audience the work is made for.